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one day, gue menemukan buku lucu yang berjudul "105 Cerita Alkitab" di konsistori gereja gue.. pas gue baca2, gue menemukan sesuatu bacaan yang menurut gue sgt bagus dan unik..ini dia bacaannya..

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semoga bacaan di atas bisa mjd teladan ya kawan.. God bless you :)

It won't happen twice♥;')

a list of the things they don’t teach you at school

I’ve been making a list of the things they don’t teach you at school. They don’t teach you how to love somebody. They don’t teach you how to be famous. They don’t teach you how to be rich or how to be poor. They don’t teach you how to walk away from someone you don’t love any longer. They don’t teach you how to know what’s going on in someone else’s mind. They don’t teach you what to say to someone who’s dying. They don’t teach you anything worth knowing.

The Concept Of Happiness

I actually attack the concept of happiness.

The idea that - I don’t mind people being happy - but the idea that everything we do is part of the pursuit of happiness seems to me a really dangerous idea and has led to a contemporary disease in Western society, which is fear of sadness. It’s a really odd thing that we’re now seeing people saying “write down 3 things that made you happy today before you go to sleep”, and “cheer up” and “happiness is our birthright” and so on. We’re kind of teaching our kids that happiness is the default position - it’s rubbish. Wholeness is what we ought to be striving for and part of that is sadness, disappointment, frustration, failure; all of those things which make us who we are. Happiness and victory and fulfillment are nice little things that also happen to us, but they don’t teach us much.

Everyone says we grow through pain and then as soon as they experience pain they say “Quick! Move on! Cheer up!” I’d like just for a year to have a moratorium on the word “happiness” and to replace it with the word “wholeness”. Ask yourself “is this contributing to my wholeness?” and if you’re having a bad day, it is.

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Someday, I hope you'll know it.

Dad, I hope someday you'll know 'bout that. Not merely know, but also understand. This is all my heart revolt, that I could never say by my own mouth.

First. I dont like if I'm being compared to another people's children. This is me, myself, not theirs. I have what characterized of myself. I know Im not good like them, Im stupid, and Im nothing for you. But I'll still be myself and keep to try all the best I can do. But would you believe it?? Did you know that what you did really hurt me so?? I feel useless anymore, 'cause you're more proud of another people's children than your daughter.

Second. I hate it when you're too curb me. I have a right to be free, I have a right to do what I want, I have a right to explore what in my mind. But you never understand it all, you always obtrude yourself, you never going to understand what I want. Please dad, I'm not a kid anymore, I'm already 17 years old, I know where the extent up of the freedom. I want to learn to be able to decide what the best for me. I want to be independent Dad. 


Third. I dont like when you snapped me every day. Example, when I'm eager to study, you always remind me to study with snap tone. Did you know? It wont give me a spirit to study, it just make down and badmood. I need a spirit from you Dad. Not screaming. I want to be encouraged by you tenderly.


Yeah, this is just a little outpouring of my heart. It'll be continue.
Thank you for reading this and sorry if there are some mistakes.
Regard, Chenchen ;)